Can you Slay and Love the Lord?

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I have been blogging for just over 3months now and I believe that with each blog post, you have been able to get to know me a little better. I love that and now I have decided to dive in a little deeper and open up another layer of my life to you. I kindly ask that you don’t judge me. Whatever your thoughts are about religion, hold fire and read this blog post with an open mind.

Now, this may come as a shock to some of you, but I am a water baptised, born-again Christian. I still try to “pops flavour and drips sauce” but this is a challenge in itself because I am often torn between the expected social norms of Christianity and the battle of being a 26 year old female living in 2018. Now if you read 26 & never been on a Bae-cation, you would know that from a young age I planned out my whole life. I can definitely tell you now that being born again in my 20s was never a part of my plan, but God was clearly waiting on me at the door.

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For a very long time, I put off the idea of getting right with the Lord. I used to think that my life would be over if I finally decided to chase after God. No more slay, no more enjoyment, life as I knew it would completely stop. Vybz Kartel would have to be traded in for Kirk Franklin and I would now spend the rest of days in Bible study. I just couldn’t bring myself to do this “God-thing properly”. I enjoyed our part-time relationship because it was convenient for me and it worked around my shenanigans, lol. Not to mention, I had become so accustomed to living by my own rules and I wasn’t really interested in giving that up.

I used to think why should I switch things up now? The Lord and I had a good thing going. As far back as I could remember, I would tell God what I wanted and he ALWAYS delivered. Whether that be my job at the bank, my first class degree in Psychology, financial blessings or any other opportunities. I did what I wanted with my life and then TOLD God he needs to co-sign my madness. As crazy as this sounds, this is exactly how I was living. So why in the world, would I give all of that up whilst living in a society where everyone does as they please?

As of February 2018, in Great Britain alone only 50.7% of the population identify as Christians and the percentage of those who actually practise the religion is much lower than that. It is safe to say that for some people Christianity/ religion isn’t seen as a driving force in their lives nowadays. So I knew that taking such a big step in my 20s was going to come at a cost. Choosing to love the Lord on a full-time basis, was going to require some real-life transformations from the inside out.

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I probably came up with a 100 reasons why I shouldn’t get baptised. Fear made me panic and I was making up all kinds of things in my head. What type of clothes could I wear, what kind of places would I be able to go to, do I have to change my friendship circle, will I have to marry a Pastors son? I seemed to believe that if I took such a huge step my life would somehow be restricted. My social life, image, purity,  purpose, relationships, career, my desires, my needs and my future was going to be impacted by choosing to be a born-again Christian. I knew it was going to be life-changing, but I felt the fear and did it anyway and I am so glad I did.

trust.jpgLife on the other side of being born again has been challenging. Learning how to live in the world but not be of it has truly stretched me beyond measure. The struggle to find the right balance between living my life and honouring my relationship with God is REAL. There have been days where I have thrown in the towel, called it a day on this Christianity thing and temporarily tapped out. Obviously, none of that has ever lasted because I always seem to find my way back to God one way or another.

I mess up from time to time, make mistakes, I say and do things that aren’t necessarily a great representation of my religion. It is not an easy road. The tug of war between the old me Vs the new me is very intense. The Old Jenna wants to wear, do and say whatever she wants, whilst the new Jenna has to try and keep with up the values of being a Christian in a modern world. Sex before marriage, modesty on social media, drinking alcohol, listening to secular music……its A LOT to juggle, but it can be done.

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So to answer the blog title is YES. It is 100% possible to love God with all your heart, be strong in your faith and serve your best slay. Personally, the only way I have been able to do this is by having BALANCE. Balance is key! Balance is everything! When I found Christ, I was yielded to come as I am. God isn’t interested in how well I can scream hallelujah, wear the longest skirts to church or put on a good Christian performance. To me, God really doesn’t care about any of that, he is more interested in living in my heart, the renewing of my mind & for me to experience the love he has for me. I could be wrong, but this is just the way I see things.

All that other extra stuff, God is not interested in. I still go out, I still get dressed up, I still have fun. Me having a relationship with God hasn’t stopped me from doing anything. I am now more mindful of how I display the values of my faith through my words and actions. As well the type of things that I feed to my soul. I know some Christians that don’t listen to secular music or eat shrimps and if that works for them, that’s great. It just won’t work for me. Being a Christian It is not an easy road to walk, sometimes I want to choke people out, get angry and talk all kinds of wreck lol. I still have my moments, I am not perfect by any means. I mess up and I probably will mess up again in the future, but this doesn’t stop me from loving God or him loving me.

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Although my appetite for certain things has changed, I haven’t stopped squeezing the juice out of life. I am more fierce than ever and I am confident in my sauce alongside all the other things that I bring to the table. Being born again hasn’t resulted in me being chained to the foot of my bed mesmerising holy scriptures. No no no, I have truly come into my own, running after everything God says that I can have. Meeting new people, having new experiences, coming out of my shell and sharing my gifts and talents with the world.

Yes, I have had to make some significant changes to my mindset and lifestyle, but these changes have been for the better. My life is actually more vibrant than it has ever been. Being born again has opened new doors for me and I truly feel like my life is soaring and it is not going to stop. How silly of me to think that stepping deeper into my faith would have hindered me from living an abundant life. This is why you should never let your fears lead you. I feel far from restricted or tied down because of my relationship with God. I  am now more confident than ever to go out into the world and do what I was created to do.

Personally for me, if I didn’t have my relationship with God, my slay would be non-existent and that’s a fact. My identity, my abilities, my confidence, who I am and who I will become is deeply rooted in my relationship with God. This is the secret formula behind my slay and without God, I would be dust. If I never had a relationship with God, #JennasWorldview wouldn’t even exist. My blog posts are heavily inspired by my faith and my life experiences. I strongly believe that God has blessed with this platform so that I can share my story and connect with people just like you. My relationship with God is my foundation and being born again has a really helped encourage me to live a full life.

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As I said it is possible to Slay and Love the Lord, but that doesn’t eliminate you from being scrutinised for doing both. It actually comes with the territory. I got a message from a lady on Instagram saying how could I be a Christian and have pictures up of myself on the beach? lol. Wooo Chile! I wanted to tell her about her mother in 12 different languages, but that was not in line with my good Christian values. So I had to handle that one with grace instead. Its safe to say she will think twice before she jumps in anyone else’s DMs. Now if I wasn’t secure in who I am something like that probably could have destroyed me or made me reluctant to grow in my faith.

I don’t mean to play devil’s advocate here but the people who display these facades of being oh so holy Christians are usually the ones that God can not recognise. The Bible teaches us about people who scream the Lord names in public but they are not for him. I am not about putting on a show by trying to act like a good Christian. I could pray for hours and speak in holy tongues until I am blue in the face, but if my heart isn’t right, God won’t be listening. What is in my heart and the strength of my relationship with God is the most important thing above everything.

I will be honest and say that I was fearful about how people were going to act towards me. To the point where I wanted to keep being born again on a low. I thought that people were going to ridicule me in judgement. So when cousin accidentally uploaded my baptism on snapchat, I had instant heart failure. Big up to the 12 people who saw me get baptised, I love you all lol. I deleted those snaps because I wasn’t ready to share that with everyone at the time. I felt like people were going to question the authenticity of my faith if they knew I was a born-again Christian. I actually believed that people would be scrolling through my social media looking at my pictures and saying I am a disgrace to Christianity lol. It is no secret that when religion is mentioned it has the power to change the atmosphere in a room.

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I have heard a few ‘wow you don’t look a Christain, or ‘I wouldn’t think that you would be a Christian’ before. I always hit those people with the same question ‘what exactly does a Christian look like’ no one has ever been able to answer. I guess it is subjective rather than objective right?. Once upon a time, I was caught up on how people would perceive me but I have managed to push past it and focus more on pleasing God rather than feeding peoples perception of me. Since I started taking this approach my walk with God has become 10x better. The journey has been filled with many highs and lows, but I wouldn’t want it any other way.

To conclude, life after being born again does not suddenly turn into a snooze fest, Issa lie boo. Don’t ever get it twisted, if anyone tells you that you cant be a Christian and live a full life is a liar with tax. You can Slay & Love God just as much. Being a Christian requires transformation from the inside out, but that doesn’t stop you from living life abundantly. People are going to talk and judge you regardless because that is the way the world works. Do not let that stop your slay or hinder you from loving the Lord.

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I hope this blog post has been insightful to you in some way, shape or form. I was hesitant to open up about my faith, as I had reservations about how it would be received. I no longer feel this way as I believe this blog post will resonate with the right people.

I would love to hear from you about your thoughts on this piece, hit me up in the comments below or find me on  Twitter, Facebook & Instagram @JennasWorldView.

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Ohhh yeah: Those amazing quotes pictures that you saw throughout this post, I found them on Google, they don’t belong to me boo.

Thank you so much for taking the time out to read this blog post, I look forward to sharing more with you soon.

Stay blessed

Lots of love

Jenna

xoxo

14 thoughts on “Can you Slay and Love the Lord?

  1. As a Christian myself I’ve found that it’s more fluid these days. There are Pentecostal, Baptist, Catholic churches, KICC and Jehovah Witness and they all have their different ways in which they practice and champion the Lord, but we believe in one God. For me if you believe and have faith in Jesus and show your gratefulness through the good and bad times and live by the core morals and values Jesus as a person did then that’s enough.

    In short there are many Christian identities and like you said, it’s subjective.

    People seeing that drinking alcohol is not a christian thing to do is a confusing one as Jesus had wine, an alcoholic beverage, on the table at The Last Supper with his disciples yet seemingly that’s not brought up in the topic of conversation when it comes to discussing Christianity.

    Anyway – this post is you in total slay mode sis 👊🏾 Well done!

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    • Hi Bro💗 thank you for taking the time to read this post and sharing things from your perspective. I definitely agree that things are more fluid these days. Everyone is on a different journey too, so two people can’t have the same journey!!

      Anyway nuff love bro xx

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  2. Great read. Controversial. As your relationship with God is deeply personal. Who am I to judge? I try to respect everyone and their belief system. I do not always assert myself as a Christian but I try to embody the principles in my character but remind everyone that I am also very much human. I think it’s a lifestyle that takes time to develop and is personalised to an extent. Thank you for sharing and being this vulnerable. XxX

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    • Hi Stephanie💕 thank you so much for taking the time to read my post. I appreciate your kind words and I feel even better to know that this has inspired you. To think I nearly abandoned this blog post, but I am so glad that I didn’t xxxxx

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  3. This post is so refreshing to read. I 1000% agree.
    This is something I’ve struggled with in my walk with God, to the point I began to feel suffocated and inauthentic.
    This would include things such as hesitating to publicly ‘like’ certain material on social media and ultimately led to me adopting a persona I couldn’t maintain.
    Even as far as my blog, which started as an outlet turned into what I would describe as a Christian Agony Aunt column.
    I was distributing Christian advice, some of which I may not have even wholeheartedly believed in myself but what I had accepted because it’s what I had heard.

    Like everyone else, there are different layers to my personality Sometimes I can be viewed as someone who is reserved, at other times I’m known to be vibrant, expressive and a little bit of a ‘wild child’ (within reason lol!).

    There is a common misconception that to be viewed as a ‘good’ Christian, one must appear solemn and conservative. I’ve come to realise just like anything else, Christianity is not ‘one size fits all’.
    God himself created humans to be different from one another, although individuals may share common interests, no two people are the same. This also means individuals will develop their relationship with God in different ways, as Jenna stated, what happen to be personal convictions for some may not be for others and that is fine. The way some people communicate with and understand God may be different to others, again this is fine.

    I personally believe this is what causes Christians to ‘backslide’. Many Christians embark on this journey believing they have to present themselves a certain way to fellow believers and the world. Like I did, it is then easy to adopt a certain persona.
    In my experience, it began to feel unnatural.

    Upon reflection, I have decided to strip right down to the fundamentals and get to know God for myself.
    One thing I have asked Him, is to show me how to serve Him whilst still maintaining my God-given personality.
    I stand on the principles of God but I am also into fashion/styling and love to experiment with bold looks so definitely believe you can serve up a storm whilst still being a believer. I grew up listening to an array of music from Mowtown to Soul/RnB and I love a good dance! I don’t feel I should have to hide who I am to be seen as ‘righteous’ especially not in man’s eyes.

    There’s so much I have to say on this topic but we’ll be here all day!

    Thank you for even beginning this conversation Jenna. Please continue to slay and remain authentic.
    “You’re doing amazing sweetie” x

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    • When I read about how you felt about liking certain things on social media, I honestly choked. I have been there too many times before and just like you I felt as though I could not be myself. I felt as though things were becoming very strained and I could not be myself and serve properly. I totally agree with you God made us all different and if he wanted us to all be the same I am sure he would have made sure of it.
      It also took me a while to realise that ministry does not start and end on the pulpit in church. So I stopped trying to mould myself into this Christian character and really started to be myself. I know God a lot more now than I did when I was trying to force myself into a one -dimensional image.

      Getting to know God for yourself is the best thing that you did because when you establish an anauthentic relationship with him, you can go out into the world and be who he needs you to be.

      The perfect Christian narrative is a trap that most believers end up getting caught in but Thank God for his grace. I was fearful about this post but I just tried to be very honest about my experiences and I am so glad that you could relate.

      LOL, I agree if we got further into this we would truly be here all day.
      Thanks, girl, happy to know that you could relate too.

      xxxx

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